Every working relationship usually has something in common and that is a friendship background. No relationship can work until the couples in it are willing to make it work’ The good part of such a phenomenon is that it allows love communication progress from attraction to affection, hatred to love.
A systematic way to allow love to grow in a relationship is by allowing it to develop naturally from friendship into a love relationship before it can transcend into marriage for sustainability.
This process allows free flow and mutual intimacy that later progress into a lasting love relationship. All working relationships never trivialize the essence of good communication; in marriage, a couple’s communication is the type that is most effective and required. Therefore let’s differentiate what communication is; an act of transferring information from one place, person, or group to another. It is usually a process by which information is exchanged between the sender and recipient through a common system of symbols, signs, or behavior.
What is Couple’s Communication? This is an approach two people in love relationship adopt or a process couple exchange information purposely to strengthen their intimacy, promote oneness and prevent any kinds of conflict in present or in the future. It is a method or an approach that aid effective relationship between and among couples particularly to prevent assumptions and pretentious behaviour, or signs that can leads to break up. The method allows couples to work out ways to resolve their differences and allow love intimacy.How?
Time must be created for discussion between partners with an open mind
- Couples must engage in deliberate interaction to resolve differences and have a common ground for better bonding
- Couples must meet with an open mind, be objective, and patient with each other even when it is not easy.
- Couples must Speak one at a time and listen carefully to the speaker
- Couples must take action; correct their wrong by forgiving each other and also act on issues raised during the meeting with sincerity and love for reigniting love bond and passion.
- Couples must not reflect on hurt rather on how reoccurrence can be prevented from coming up.
- Couples must be straight forward and never keep any secret from each other
- Couples must find a point of reconnecting, and end the fight by embracing peace. Thereafter, live together like before in the same abode, sleep together and make love as a couple.
To be continue…